R: Bjj

So stop looking for the magic trick. Wash your belt. Tape your fingers. And get on the mats.

Oss. (But only if you mean it.)

The fantasy says you will never tap. The reality says you tap five times a round, but you learn resilience. The fantasy says technique trumps strength. The reality says strength with technique is unbeatable—so you better get stronger. The fantasy says BJJ is a family. The reality says it is a tribe. Families have fights, drama, and politics. Tribes bleed together and then go get acai bowls. So stop looking for the magic trick

Because the is better than the fantasy.

But here is the kicker: