Then decide: Do you want to be on it? Or do you want to find someone who doesn’t need one? Have you ever been judged by someone’s secret list? Share your story in the comments—or better yet, send them this article.
So the next time you feel like you’re being measured against an invisible rubric, take a breath and say it to yourself: mi conquista tiene una lista
Psychologists have noted that excessive “checklisting” can be a defense mechanism: it’s safer to reject someone for not meeting a criterion than to risk genuine vulnerability. Then decide: Do you want to be on it
“Mi conquista tiene una lista.”