Taboo: Love To Mother 1984 Classic Hit

While no single mainstream chart-topper was explicitly titled "Love to Mother" in 1984, the theme exploded in two directions that year: the sentimental ballad (which was safe) and the psychological rock anthem (which broke the rules). By 1984, the "Mom & Pop" values of the 1950s had been thoroughly deconstructed. Punk was fading into post-punk, and bands like The Smiths (forming that year) would soon sing about "uncaring mothers." However, the most famous "taboo" mother-song of 1984 came from an unlikely place: The Cars' "Drive" .

"Mother" – The Police (Live 1984). Just don’t play it at the family reunion. Did we miss an actual song titled "Love to Mother" from 1984? Contact us—that rarity would be the holy grail of pop taboos. Love To Mother 1984 Classic Hit Taboo

While "Drive" is ostensibly a lover’s plea ("Who’s gonna drive you home tonight?"), music critics at Rolling Stone noted the video’s disturbing undertone: a helpless, child-like figure (model Annette) staring blankly, while the singer (Ric Ocasek) acts as a protective, almost maternal figure. The ? Flipping the script—making the male lover the "mother." It was subtle, but for 1984, it was edgy. The True Taboo: The "Oedipal Hit" The real "love to mother" taboo hit of 1984 wasn't a love song—it was a hate song dressed as love. The Police's "Mother" (from their 1983 album Synchronicity , but a live staple and radio oddity in early 1984) is the definitive article. "Mother" – The Police (Live 1984)

In the landscape of 1980s pop music, 1984 was a year of excess, synthesizers, and carefully managed rebellion. Yet, buried beneath the polished surface of MTV hits like "Purple Rain" and "Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go" lies a fascinating, often uncomfortable subgenre: the song about maternal love that veered into territory. Contact us—that rarity would be the holy grail

By Rock Cellar Magazine Staff